The biggest waste of effort in your marriage is trying to change your spouse. When you try to change your spouse you come across as a nag and you send a message to your spouse that they are not enough for you and that something is wrong with them. Let your spouse be who he or she is and focus on allowing God to change YOU!
Every woman and man has the power to uplift their spouse or tear them down. You have the power to build a King or Queen. Decide today what you will do with the power God has given you to speak into the life of your spouse!
In every argument or disagreement you have to remember there is no winner or loser. In marriage either you WIN TOGETHER or LOSE TOGETHER!